Hmm... Friends - is both an interesting and delicate topic.

>>Who can state from itself to have friends? I mean, "correct friends".
Surely there are those, somewhere there outside.<<

... I wrote; and it is correct also.

Likewise in the net I became acquainted with 2004 probably the most important human in my life, my current engaged Gabi.

" Recently I was allowed to experience that there are people, which let one fall proper, if a situation changes going by, which does not fit them; completely in the opposite turn themselves, if someone is not their opinion.

Well, not everyone can can go around with criticism. At least everyone should have starting from a certain age a healthy measure diplomacy, but that is not necessarily everyone thing.

If someome sometime has decided to be there for someone, to be a friend or a girlfriend for someone, then there is nothing that can place itself between them. Because with a friendship is as with the love:

An eternal building site: you must constantly work on it.

If a phase of construction does not go on, you have to make a plan, that it continues.

But for some one it is simpler, to throw away the pickax and start new in a softer place with the shovel.

If however someone, and we remain on the building site, which puts pickax down and goes on with a mechanical pick, then you can say:

THAT IS A FRIEND ! "

To someone such a thing happened, seems. Unfortunately much too often!

But !!!

... and that is the insight, to which I came: There is hardly something that cannot be clarified. Some needs its time; but sometime one of both parties with approach should step itself into the back and go the first step toward new start.

It works!

Here I would like to place a few dear greetings and say thanks:

A big thank you to our neighbourhood in Hassum, thank you to Bine & Holger, Katrin & Carsten, Marion & Uwe, Hille, Sabine & Ralf, Tina & Diddi, Petra, Ulf, Karin & Juergen, Birgit, Marianne & Edelfried, as well to Tanja and Alexander Jakob ( spezialist in Hessen, if it concerns warmth in the dwelling) .

( pictures of these gentleman and ladies you can find in the gallery )


Se ya